“Ken embodies such a wealth of profound wisdom, patience, and incredible depth of insight into the heart of both the light and the darkness of the human experience. His contemplative, highly aware, still, and deep nature translates as an ability to sense and navigate very subtle and powerful nuances and pathways to healing with the people he serves.”
—Mona Rabie, Cairo, Egypt
Member of The Hague Center for Global Governance, Innovation & Emergence
Relational Reconciliation
for the restoration and renewal of relating
clarity | honesty | truth | authenticity | sincerity
Who is this for?
Individuals, Couples, Siblings, Families, Parent(s) & Children, Communities & Collaborators
What is the purpose of Relational Reconciliation?
To illuminate the gap between who you say you are and how you’re showing up, so as align, refine, and close the gap to true and authentic Self-expression.
To dissolve binding, outdated or obsolete ancestral loyalties, allegiances, and entanglements.
To balance the scales of power and control as they express in the container of relating.
To rewrite and clarify vows, agreements, expectations and shared visions.
To witness and weave fragmented aspects of Self, lineage, and life back into connection and coherence.
To embody and express more aligned and empowering, honoring, and reciprocal relational dynamics.
To open new or previously blocked pathways of peace, harmony, love, and care.
To provide a safe space where untouched or unexpressed; hidden or repressed truths can be shared, acknowledged, witnessed and healed.
To openly address the 'elephant(s) in the room' — the source(s) of relational tension that have contributed to strained and stressful relations.
Take the pressure off you (and your relations) to do it on your own...instead rest into a container that holds the emergent process of relational reconciliation and renewal.
Where does the session happen?
For most this happens via online meeting, unless we are located in the same geographical area. As of October, 2026 i am in the Sacred Valley of Peru.
What is the cost?
Given the diversity of configurations for which Relational Reconciliation can occur, the pricing is on a case by case basis. If interested in discussing your specific situation, complete the form below and we can hop on a brief call to discuss.
Who facilitates?
My given name is Kenneth Fried and i am a holy luminous miracle as vast as the cosmos having a human experience. My paternal family surname is Friedfertig, which in German means Peaceable.
Since my youth i've embraced the alchemy of presence; depth; authenticity; heartfelt connection; and catalyzing conversation — paired with the sacred elixirs of silence, solitude, and stillness.
While i do much in service to life, the bulk of what i do is be —
be neath, be hind, be tween, and be yond.
i am a peacekeeper, weaver, bridge; and a man of heart. i love, purify, and refine with tender ferocity. i am a living paradox and both i and my life experience are a magical mystery to many, including myself.
For those interested, my birth kin is: Jun (1) Tz'ikin
Christelle’s Experience:
"When I sat with Ken for my Relational Reconciliation, I started to talk about an experience I've had and I realized somehow that his way to listen to me or to hear me that allowed me to open up more naturally. I love to talk about everything and I'm an open book: I feel like I'm not holding back anything, but talking with him, I started to see some aspects that I was completely unaware of just seconds before. And that process unfolded without any force or expectations: I genuinely wanted to tell my story from point A to point B but got caught by my own pure reflection along the way, that told me, hey, you forgot about this, and this and that... As if in fact in that whole story I wasn't fully integrating my whole spirit, I was reacting out of what I know, what I've learned, my programming. I saw it as if he said something to guide me there but he said nothing. He said nothing until I ridiculously figured things out on my own and then I realized I didn't need to hold on these conditionings anymore, and I felt my whole body relaxing, landing, with him, in the present moment. And he was there from the beginning, with no judgement, but simply being attentive and staying in a loving energy in which I knew I would be safe. That was a very nice and valuable experience that grounded me even more into who I am." — Christelle, Sacred Valley, Peru